Here is how you can make the most of your SexPositive Portland (SPP) experience:
In SPP, there’s a level for everyone! You may find that Level 1 and Level 2 events fill your cup quite nicely, while others find that Level 3 is their bliss! Here is an easy guide to understanding your level.
You start at Level 1 once you have been accepted into membership. You can now attend any Level 1 event.
To get to L2, you must have paid your yearly dues and completed the following classes and socials:
If you have done these things and still don’t see an L2 by your name, reach out to the Membership Retention Lead through the member name of "SPP Membership" on Meetup to let them know that you are ready.
You can attend all of our amazing touch-positive events such as Massage-a-Trois, the Tantra Series, and Cuddle events. Once you have actively attended events, you may feel that you are ready and interested in exploring L3 events.
To get to L3, you must take the following steps:
Any L3 or L4 person can agree to sponsor you, provided they are not sexually active with you and do not intend to become so in the near future. Ask anyone you feel comfortable with, and don’t worry if you get a few rejections. The sponsor should know you well and feel comfortable recommending or not recommending you (with direct communication to you) for advancement.
Once approved by the Membership Sponsor Lead, sign up for an L3 or a progressive L2-L3 event with your sponsor and notify the host of the event that you are attending with your sponsor.
When the sponsor believes that you are ready, they will send a message to the Membership Sponsor Lead through the member name of "SPP Membership" proposing Level 3 status. The Membership Committee will either grant the status or make other recommendations.
It’s important to understand that L3 events are not suitable for everyone. Unclear personal boundaries, poor hygiene, lack of respect for others, unhealed trauma, and other personal issues that may affect other members negatively are all reasons to stick with L1/L2 events. The Membership Team has the responsibility to make level determinations.
If you have attended several L3 events, as well as more lower level events, you may feel that you are ready and interested in exploring L4 events.
To get to L4, you must take the following steps:
This process depends on you; it will move as quickly as you are motivated for it to move. For some, with openness and past experiences moving between levels may take a short time. A sponsor may assist in this process. Some individuals may take longer or want to stop at a level for a while, enjoy themselves, and build extra trust in their community before moving to another level.
For further explanation of the SPP levels please see the Levels 1-4 Explained.