Apply To SPP

Please understand the following before starting the application

We are a secret group. That means only members can see your profile.

PLEASE FILL OUT ALL QUESTIONS FULLY AND COMPLETELY. Short answers mean that you have not read this and will be immediately denied.

The main things we seek in our members are:

  • Understanding of sex-positivity. We are not a dating or hook-up group. We are a community.

  • Related experience or learning (books, workshops, friendship circles). Total newbies will be considered, but you'll need to bring a lot of the next item.

  • Enthusiasm and willingness to be a part of a community by volunteering or coming out to events regularly.

  • We are not a hook-up group, a dating site or a place for swingers to play.

  • We look for emotional maturity, social awareness, good communication styles and a willingness to grow.

  • You must live within 60 miles of Portland or visit often.

  • If you have a common name, please add your last name or an initial. We prefer real names, not aliases.

  • You must be over 21.

  • Couples must apply separately. Please reference each other in your individual applications.

  • You must have a recognizable photo of your face, without sunglasses or a mask. The photo must show only you, without anyone else.

When you fill out your profile, know that that is what other members will see and how they'll decide if they want to be friends and/or play with you

Men, we love you and need you, but please understand, we get a lot more applications from single men than their female counterparts so, please be understanding if we bring an extra level of scrutiny.

Note: membership is managed by Meetup.com. The link below will take you to Meetup.com to signup to SPP. If you don't have a Meetup account, you will be instructed to create one.

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